PATU, I'll never forget the day Ekese sent me a message saying " we have another situation ... it's Patu" That you'd gone away without saying Good Bye!!! It hurts like an open wound.There are days so far I I wish I could wake up from this nightmare..I wish that call would come... or that SMS...But there's nothing from that number no more. I am trying to be strong because I know that would make you proud; but there are times it is so unreal I cannot help but sit and stare!! Patu you were our corner stone in a million ways.You were the example of hard work, courage,self- belief.We grew up, moved to different parts of the world, but we were still part of your world.You made our holidays to Bokwango extraspecial!!I remember how we talked often and laughed over bitter/sweeet memories. We are all so proud of you and are exceedingly grateful to GOD for your LIFE and the many blessings shared. Everyone's problem, pain or hurting was yours as well.Mamma's illness was yours..Do you know what?YOU were a very efficient carer.You took care of her till your last hour, we cannot ask any more than that. We will miss you very much.Sleep well and take care TILL WE MEET AGAIN.